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I dont know what allowed him 17 years ago to reconfigure his inner compass so quickly so completely. I didnt want to be dad either until I held the baby in my arms.
It may seem as a difficult time for you but your husband too.
Gf pregnant don t want baby. Answer 1 of 220. You got your girlfriend pregnant but dont want the baby though she does. What are your options.
Unless the sex was not consentual you made the choice to have sex. Pregnancy is a bi-product of sex. When birth control methods are used theres still a chance of pregnancy.
If my girlfriend is pregnant and i dont want the baby what can I do to minimize things financially. There is not much you can do if the GF puts you on the birth certificate as the bio father. If you want to dispute that the baby is yours you can file for a DNA test.
Hi Ive had a sort of relationship with a 42y girl for 8 months she accidentally got pregnant recently and wants to keep it despite the fact that I dont. She has 4 children already from two men and as much as I liked her I never intended to have a family with her. She has always known I.
Her wanting to watch the baby is maybe a way to see if you are the right person that she wants to raise her son and her undecisiveness has led her to think she needs a man who has already done itthose things together is actually a good thing in my eyes because otherwise the alternative would be straight up not wanting you near the kid or her at all. I got a girl pregnant at 16. Dont rule out the possibility of being dad.
We had talked about abortion agreed to it set up an apointment and the day of she cancelled. I didnt want to be dad either until I held the baby in my arms. Dont burn any bridges yet.
And at least youre going to pay child support. I think the solution would be that he raises the baby if you dont want to keep it and he does. But also dont base how you feel about the baby just on how connected you are during the pregnancy.
Its totally different when the baby is here not everyone feels anything towards their fetus. It seems like you still love her a lot and want to be there for the baby but she just doesnt seem to understand how her actions are hurting you. I mean there are pregnancy hormones but honestly I dont think that gives people and excuse to treat their partners rudely.
You should stand up for yourself but you dont want her to take offense. If you want kids and he doesnt want anymore what does that say about long terms plans with him Suggestions going forward. Its time to think about what you want.
If youre ready for motherhood and want this baby then youre going to have to stand firm in your desire and disregard your boyfriends off-putting reaction and move forward. I dont know where to put this so I apologise if its in wrong place. Im currently 6 weeks pregnant and was very happy about it but my boyfriend told me he didnt want the baby.
Im 19 and at university hes 20 and doesnt earn that much. Im sure Id feel so much happier. Here are some potential reasons why one partner doesnt want a baby when the other does.
The ambivalent partner may be questioning hisher own ability to remain in the. Everyone expects the news that a baby is on the way to bring nothing but happiness. But some men find the prospect of being a dad worrying rather than joyful.
Remember women and men react differently to a pregnancy. While you may begin to feel physical and emotional changes he may not be able to understand what you are going through. It may seem as a difficult time for you but your husband too.
First off your parents should understand and if you dont want the baby they should be behind you to have it and let someone like me who cant have children adopt it. Iam a 38 year old female who cant have children and i would love to help you thru this and adopt your baby. Consider all 3 options When you find out you are pregnant you can do 3 things.
Keep the baby do an abortion or give it for adoption. Take all 3 options into consideration and imagine how your life would be in each of those situations. Dont think things just for now but rather think more about the consequences.
My girlfriend has discovered that she is pregnant. I am not happy about the idea of becoming a father. I have spoken to her about it and told her that I.
When you learn of an unplanned pregnancy you may feel a complex mix of emotions shock uncertainty and even fear are common responses. You might have thoughts like I dont want to be pregnant or even I dont want my baby These are all natural reactions to an unexpected pregnancy and there is help available to you. If you are pregnant and dont want to be or if you simply feel that.
Although your boyfriend doesnt want you to have this baby he had it in his power to try to make sure the pregnancy didnt happen. Regarding this question of my girlfriend is pregnant but I dont want to be with her what can I do you will need to think more about yourself. Think more whether you are ready for a relationship.
My name is Michelle Devani and Ive been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I. When the deadline comes either leave him or try for a baby if he is ready.
Dont trick him be honest with him. If you no longer want to prevent pregnancy then put contraception responsibility on him. Tell him to use condom or avoid you during your fertile time and let him calculate when that is.
Most importantly you just know that with or without him your baby will be just fine. And so will you. Its hard doing it alone but one day you will find a man that will accept you and your baby and take care of the both of you.
Be greatful you have family. And know that you will be alright. As time are changing us women are realizing we dont need no man to help us take care of a baby.
My babys father is the. I got pregnant but I dont want a baby. Asked for Female 24 Years.
Actually my period missed and I checked and it is showing that am pregnant my husband and I dont want a baby now we have some other priorities for now how can we abort it. I dont know what allowed him 17 years ago to reconfigure his inner compass so quickly so completely. All I can report is what he told me at the time.
She kicked down the door and all my. Do I get an abortion or keep my babySUBS. My gf 27 is pregnant and I 25 dont want kids.
2020-08-11 181917 FINAL UPDATE. My gf 27 is pregnant and I 25 dont want kids. Sounds like a classic case of cheating to either trap your partner with a baby they dont want or getting pregnant by another dude and catching feelings for the baby.
He is getting tired of waiting to see if Ill ever get pregnant again and even then its not a guarantee Ill carry the baby. He wants to find a women that will have his baby and then give the baby to us. He dont want a relationship with the women we are afread that the women will not give us the baby and cause problems.